Should I be careful? I met this guy online in June.We have been dating eachother ever since.Lately he has? began telling me that he wants me to move to his city. We live only 30 min away from each other.I dont have my own apartment because I have to help my grandmother,she wants me here.He has been looking for apartments in his city for me.The rent is really high where he lives.Why does he want me to just pick up and move there to be with him.The only help that he has offered is to rent a car and help move my belongings from here to there.He said that I am always coming to his place and he doesnt want to come to mine because it is too far.Could he be abusive?
Is this a warning?
Should I be carefull?
Does this mean that he wants to get married?Should I be carefull?
I’m torn. I have been dating this man for about two months now.Lately he has been telling me that he wants me to go to Arizona in November to meet his family,friends,everyone.H… and I live here in California and he wants to move to New York with him next year.He asked me last weekend if I can have children.I’m a little hesitant because he has a really BADDD temper.He got mad at me and punched the wall.We went on an outing to the park. I told him that I needed to go to the bathroom.When I got back from the bathroom he showed me his camera.He had followed me and took pictures of me as I went to the bathroom aal the way until I went inside.I remember stopping to talk to a lady about her dog,he took pictures of that too.Am I jumping to conclusions or should I be carefull
First of all–I would say that this guys shows all the signs of a potential abuser: Punching wall, telling you to move in his city (If he wants you, HE should move to where YOU are. Not the other way.) And..what’s up with him taking the pictures when you go to the bathroom? Creeper. Drop him and find someone who respects you. References :
? Honey… run far away from this guy! He sounds like a total creep and an abusive one at that. These are classic signs of an abusive man. My biological father abused my mom for 15 years so I know the signs….. you need to break it off with him.. Good Luck! References :
Consider what you have said here and what you would say to somebody who told you this …. "got mad at you and punched a wall in anger , followed you to the toilets with his camera , wont come to see you because its too far but he likes it for you to go see him , children !!! angry father !!!does he want to marry you ?"what next i would be asking ? he sounds unpredictable , perhaps he "seems" nice enough to you and perhaps you get along well but he seems to me to be unpredictable and im sure there are other things you havent told us about him , try to get in-touch with one of his ex és and find out more about him , find out more about him from other sources other than his mouth , and "if" you find he has lied to you dont accept his reasons for lying !!! trust your heart not your head i say , dont leave your grandmother for a practical stranger it may break both of your hearts , true love will come to you one way or another but not with this guy judging by what you have said , remain just friends i say trust your heart References :
Slow down be naturally careful. Why the rush when you only live such a short distance away?and what about the temper??
you have your own life to live and enjoy, from what you say he is trying to rule you!! References :
First of all if he wanted me, he could come to me!
Second, if he wanted to marry, he should be asking
you to move in with him, instead of inconveniencing you.
Pictures? Like he’s saying i know your every move baby,
you can stay home, barefood, and pregnant, while i have
my fun. I don’t believe you’re jumping to conclusions.
Be very careful, he could be a stalker.
You need to drop this dude like a hot tamale. References :
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Should I be careful? I met this guy online in June.We have been dating eachother ever since.Lately he has?
began telling me that he wants me to move to his city. We live only 30 min away from each other.I dont have my own apartment because I have to help my grandmother,she wants me here.He has been looking for apartments in his city for me.The rent is really high where he lives.Why does he want me to just pick up and move there to be with him.The only help that he has offered is to rent a car and help move my belongings from here to there.He said that I am always coming to his place and he doesnt want to come to mine because it is too far.Could he be abusive?
Is this a warning?
Should I be carefull?
Does this mean that he wants to get married?Should I be carefull?
I’m torn. I have been dating this man for about two months now.Lately he has been telling me that he wants me to go to Arizona in November to meet his family,friends,everyone.H… and I live here in California and he wants to move to New York with him next year.He asked me last weekend if I can have children.I’m a little hesitant because he has a really BADDD temper.He got mad at me and punched the wall.We went on an outing to the park. I told him that I needed to go to the bathroom.When I got back from the bathroom he showed me his camera.He had followed me and took pictures of me as I went to the bathroom aal the way until I went inside.I remember stopping to talk to a lady about her dog,he took pictures of that too.Am I jumping to conclusions or should I be carefull
Run!!! This guy sounds crazy – get out now
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yes u really need to be careful around him ok yea i think u should leave him alone
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First of all–I would say that this guys shows all the signs of a potential abuser: Punching wall, telling you to move in his city (If he wants you, HE should move to where YOU are. Not the other way.) And..what’s up with him taking the pictures when you go to the bathroom? Creeper. Drop him and find someone who respects you.
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? Honey… run far away from this guy! He sounds like a total creep and an abusive one at that. These are classic signs of an abusive man. My biological father abused my mom for 15 years so I know the signs….. you need to break it off with him.. Good Luck!
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YOUR GRANDMOTHER IS MORE IMPORTANT…DON’T TRUST HIM…RUN,RUN AWAY FAST AND CHANGE YOUR NUMBER….
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Consider what you have said here and what you would say to somebody who told you this …. "got mad at you and punched a wall in anger , followed you to the toilets with his camera , wont come to see you because its too far but he likes it for you to go see him , children !!! angry father !!!does he want to marry you ?"what next i would be asking ? he sounds unpredictable , perhaps he "seems" nice enough to you and perhaps you get along well but he seems to me to be unpredictable and im sure there are other things you havent told us about him , try to get in-touch with one of his ex és and find out more about him , find out more about him from other sources other than his mouth , and "if" you find he has lied to you dont accept his reasons for lying !!! trust your heart not your head i say , dont leave your grandmother for a practical stranger it may break both of your hearts , true love will come to you one way or another but not with this guy judging by what you have said , remain just friends i say trust your heart
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Slow down be naturally careful. Why the rush when you only live such a short distance away?and what about the temper??
you have your own life to live and enjoy, from what you say he is trying to rule you!!
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OMG THAT GUY IS A F***ING CREEP!!!! Stay away from him hun….bad news written all over it!!!
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First of all if he wanted me, he could come to me!
Second, if he wanted to marry, he should be asking
you to move in with him, instead of inconveniencing you.
Pictures? Like he’s saying i know your every move baby,
you can stay home, barefood, and pregnant, while i have
my fun. I don’t believe you’re jumping to conclusions.
Be very careful, he could be a stalker.
You need to drop this dude like a hot tamale.
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